I intentionally create this blog after collecting my data for my PhD research in late 2008, Life Experience of Professional Malay Women who have not married. I would like to bring all of you together under one roof or using one platform, finally, I got an idea of creating this blog where all of you can communicate with each others either professionally or at leisure.
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Jodoh
Walau digenggam kuat, andai ia bukan milik kita, ia terlepas jua. Walau ditolak ke tepi, andai ia untuk kita, ia mendatang jua. Itulah namanaya Jodoh. (pepatah cinta Islami- Ashadi Zain)
Jodoh adalah keajaiban yang Tuhan saja yang Maha Tahu
And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. Surah 30, verse 21 ... it is He who created all things, and ordered (qadara) them in due proportions. Surah 25 Verse 2
... With God is the Decision, in the past and inthe Future... Surah 30 Verse 4
Quotes
Of the many life events that may engage and change us, three are fundamental to what people commonly expect of the adult life cycle: starting out on one’s own, getting married, and becoming a parent
Daniels and Weingarten
Sooner or Later You don’t need to be a man to be a leader
You don’t need to be straight to be normal
You don’t need to be white to be smart
You don’t need to be coupled to be happy
DePaulo and Morris
Marriage is not necessarily an indicator of psychological health, nor is being single necessarily an indicator of pathology Emery & White
There is no theory of marriage but theory of marriage is related to the economics of marriageGS Becker , 1973 &1974
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