I intentionally create this blog after collecting my data for my PhD research in late 2008, Life Experience of Professional Malay Women who have not married. I would like to bring all of you together under one roof or using one platform, finally, I got an idea of creating this blog where all of you can communicate with each others either professionally or at leisure.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
words of wisdom from a friend; million of thanks
Kamek understand your journey kinek tok..........the toughest road. Noworry but hang on there and keep working. Klak you sendiri terkejut what Ucan do bila dah habis tulis. I am glad analogy driving ya dapat nolong yousikit. Anywhere in phenomenology cam ya lah you expect to write. Sik dasigek penulisan atau buku atau example yang perfect untuk panduan u nulisthesis secara phenomenology sebab setiap phenomenology approach sangatsubjective, specific to its contact, culture and even every subject,kitakenak highlight ke unikannya.So my suggestion,you kenak baca banyakkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkpenulisan phenomenologist and learn the writing skill from there, journal,books or even story book!!! Lepas ya keep writing and re writing and rewriting quoting from my supervisors word masa kat NZ dolok. Once u sendirirasa puas menulis ya discuss with your supervisor. 1st step yang palingpenting ialah thema thema you answer your research questions and explainwhat you want to achieve in your study objectives. I started with coding,categories and themes and move forward and backward and sometimes back tooriginal codes many times. Yes its time consuming and mind boggling.Yes in writing take one step at a time. Mun U tengah nulis researchfindings you, focus tok ajak your reading, your searching , your thinking,your refelction. Jangan campur aduk dengan chapter lain.Another things, mun you rasa serabut, overwhelm or stuck up....no worry itsnormal process. Give yourself a break and go holiday with family. You willfeel fresh and rejuvenated when you return from your break and wow lekak ya best nulis.
And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. Surah 30, verse 21 ... it is He who created all things, and ordered (qadara) them in due proportions. Surah 25 Verse 2
... With God is the Decision, in the past and inthe Future... Surah 30 Verse 4
Quotes
Of the many life events that may engage and change us, three are fundamental to what people commonly expect of the adult life cycle: starting out on one’s own, getting married, and becoming a parent
Daniels and Weingarten
Sooner or Later You don’t need to be a man to be a leader
You don’t need to be straight to be normal
You don’t need to be white to be smart
You don’t need to be coupled to be happy
DePaulo and Morris
Marriage is not necessarily an indicator of psychological health, nor is being single necessarily an indicator of pathology Emery & White
There is no theory of marriage but theory of marriage is related to the economics of marriageGS Becker , 1973 &1974
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